Re: Facebook Tells Court ‘Like’ Feature Vital to Free Speech
2013-05-17 16:48:39 GMT
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Respectfully,Please also give me the benefit of the doubt. Just because this is a little lengthy does not indicate to you my emotions or other opinions. Assuming otherwise is the primary cause of weird online conflicts and rudeness in general. I'm trying to help address a situation where others in the community feel you have been inappropriate and you have not taken proactive steps to address the situation.If someone suggests you do something differently and your reply is "try yoga." It essentially means: "I can do as I wish, I reject your complaint, if you have a problem with anything, it is your fault; I suggest you learn about something you surely don't know about because you must be an ignorant, uneducated person or at least someone with personal problems for you to be upset enough to object about this."I suggested something you could do to be more respectful to people on the list (edit out your disclaimer just from list e-mails, without removing it otherwise). I do not take personal offense, as there is nothing personal going on here, but your reply was unambiguously condescending.Victor,Please accept my claim that I am not personally upset about anything. It is hard to interpret things from pure text.
I'm replying privately because I don't believe this should be hashed out on the public discussion.
Your reply was condescending because it made all sorts of assumptions about the person you were interacting with and took zero responsibility for your side of the interaction.
Again, I personally am not upset. But I'm calling you out because this form of communication is destructive to healthy communities. If you need further clarification or want to have a constructive dialog, I'm willing to help.
I'll give you the benefit of the doubt that you didn't intend to be condescending, being that way wasn't your goal, it was just careless or perhaps even well-intentioned. But it wasn't constructive and you will do well to heed my advice and accept it constructively.
Aaron
On Fri, May 17, 2013 at 9:26 AM, Victor Shamanovsky <victor.shamanovsky <at> gmail.com> wrote:Hi Aaron,"Don't let anything steal your peace". I learned that from my yoga teachers. Try yoga.
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Victor, you could easily remove your disclaimer from e-mails you send to this list (the disclaimer makes no sense for these public postings anyway).
On Fri, May 17, 2013 at 12:42 AM, Victor Shamanovsky <victor.shamanovsky <at> gmail.com> wrote:Thank you for your advise :)
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